Thanks for the opinions, guys. The exhaust condensation used to be an issue, for sure with older cars. My sister had a Cavilier years ago with a short commute and she couldnt keep a muffler on that car. They always used to rust out. I am not sure if they make them better now a days to help them not corrode as much. As far as my wife's driving, we try to take her car on the weekends to put some miles on it and get it on the highway to open it up. As far as idling the car, she doesn't currently do much of that before she drives the car. I would assume as long as it isn't idling for an excessive amount of time, it won't be a problem. Currently, I yell at her because she starts the car, lets it run for 10 seconds and sticks it in gear and is off. She doesn't drive it hard when it is cold, but the car isn't warm yet. I tend to let the car idle for 30 seconds or so to let it warm up and get its fluids moving. We are looking to lease her next car due to the short commute and low yearly miles. The one of the cars we are looking at for her to replace her current 6i is the CX-7, which obviously shares engines with our MS6. She doesn't get to drive mySpeed because she can't drive stick! So no one has ever heard of short commutes being especially bad for turbos?
I agree, that if there were wear and tear issues due to short commuting, they would show up later in the car's life. We would probably be doing a 12k or 15k a year lease for 36 mos, so probably wouldn't see any issues as a result of this during our driving the car.