I've noticed the most attractive women have the most 'issues' with self-esteem.. etc.. so I dont know where you are coming from on that one.. I swear every gorgeous girl I've ever met thinks very lowly of themselves.. thats why you have to find some middle ground..Whenever I ended up single, I thought to myself f**k it I'm just gonna have fun....Then I found WebTV (remember that? :laugh: ) CHAT ROOMS was the bomb diggity...Then I found my bf I lived in Missouri (NOT from there) he lived in New York. We chatted online for about 2 months then we met, hit it off (yeah that too).........I guess what I'm trying to say is when you're just out there having fun not even thinking about finding "the one" is when it normally happens.....Something for you to ponder on guys....Ever notice the most attractive women(not just physical) have a bf/husband? It's because they're confident in knowing they already have someone and are happy...In other words guys/girls get turned of when they sense "desperation"...Relax, have fun, most of all don't go "looking" you'll seem desperate
lol.. im mostly just kidding.. I like to get angry every once in a while.. makes me feel better.. haha.ReClaim, it sounds like you have some unresolved issues with your ex, man. I hope your current girl isn't a rebound chick. Think you need to solve those things before moving on.
I really couldnt disagree more.. its really hard for guys to get women to be interested in them.. speaking from personal experience at least.. Women just have to sit around and wait.. a guy needs to be pro-active... If you're having trouble finding a man.. try showing some boobs.. if you dont have boobs.. try showing some ass.. if you dont have that.. pout your lips.. if you dont have that.. try to have a sense of humor.. if you dont have that... then its time to just give it up.. haha.good advice everyone but i am worried that i am going to end up alone, i guess i am going thru a phase in my life where it really bothers me and makes me sad..... I mean i ain't getting any younger...
I use to believe that there was someone for everyone but not so much anymore.... I dont know, i guess i am not the type that guys are looking for.... I think its harder for ladies than it is for guys in todays society, to meet someone.... I think guys have higher standards for how they want their woman to look.... Looks are important but aren't everything....
anyway, back to work i go