After reading VAHomeBrew81's post first time I intentionally tried the driving pattern he described to see if I could recreate it but could not.
My daily 9 mile commute is only in the 40-60 mph range and have the car for over 8 months now in which I would have done the "take foot off gas, let speed drop a little and press gas again" routine hundreds of times in the speed range and should have hit that problem if it were "Normal" across all M6s.
I just said try it, I do it all the time too. Like I said that's all I can think of because its how I drive.
Also like I said in a previous post, when it happened to me I noticed the needle hanging on the tach, the car behaves more like it wants to upshift(because of the step on the gas then release) but then because of the release falls back to a point where it would downshift rather than up, so it hangs instead.
Roughly 3ish times its happened and I only noticed the needle the last time, but I assume the last times may have been the same because of the feel.